Sunday, 15 March 2009

AS DAYS GO BY......


When you are young you always think that time goes quickly and that you cannot wait until later on in life (read-retirement) when people tell you that you will have so much time to yourself to do whatever you want. Let me make a formal announcement- THEY ALL LIE. When we get older and retire the days are cut by 25% and reduced to only 18 hours each instead of the accepted 24 hours per day- the rationale for this is that we tend to do things slower as we get older( three hours lost) we tend to sleep longer or take nanny naps ( two hours lost) and the final hour is spent trying to remember what we did for the last 12 hours. All in all, time flies when you are retired ,to a point where you cannot afford to sit and read something for an hour because this is an hour that you will never get back in your life going forward. Giving up smoking is similar in that all I wanted to do before was to have another ciggy. Ciggies always meant going outside of the house and sitting down (mainly on the infamous lounge-see previous comments) and just relaxing. Without the desire to have a cigarette I find now I dont have any desire to go outside the house and I spent hours and hours more on the computer doing things like these blogs. Its like a kid who wants to spend time in his room with the XBox or similar. One becomes more insular and more capable of not leaving the house.

Am I sounding more agitated,contankerous and pissed off with things generally?. Are these tablets finally giving me problems with some well documented side affects? Did I get out of bed on the wrong side this morning or maybe I am just letting of some steam. I will let others judge.

2 comments:

  1. you are right. add to that is the time looking for lost things, it's o.k. a new time in life and time to change..book in for golf.

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  2. i think you need to find a new reason to go outside, or just settle into the fact that you're going to spend a bit more time inside. nothing wrong with either approach i think.

    i suppose it isn't just the neural pathways that need changing, but also the Dad pathways. you're going to develop new habits now, and at the moment you're very aware of them, but in time you'll settle into them so well that you won't even notice it's happened.

    i remember when i quit, i was concerned that i wouldn't have such a reason to go outside with the kids at work for smoking time - but i ended up just going outside with them anyway, and having a chat, while watching them smoke. i thought that might be hard, but in reality, i felt sorry for them, and then would really notice how much they stunk when we went back inside!!!!

    anyways, am i pushing it with two comments tonight?? hopefully this one sends :)

    xxx

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